In good news, a young girl was saved from pervasive vagina myths. It's better for all parties to have realistic expectations. A vagina does not smell like flowers. It'd be stupid if it did. Douching is just a good way to get infections. Shaving is not required. Sometimes during oral sex, I have gotten a male pubic hair in my teeth. It was not the end of the world. I survived. Maybe if a man withholds oral because you have hair on your vagina, you should find another guy,ok? He obviously isn't very woman positive.