Here's an interesting conversation on the connection between Gothic Lolita fashion and the actual book Lolita(there's not really more than a tangential connection). Of course what really gets my ire is people who don't even read the book Lolita, and think that they know what it's about by a)watching the movie b)plain hearsay. You can't get Lolita in by watching a fucking movie! It's a fucking masterpiece of literature here- and it's not told straight.
I'm too tired to write a decent piece about this blog post. However, it talks about feminism, racism and explores many issues. Read it all, and comments.
Also some good commentary about racism.