This post exemplifies why I am slightly addicted to older men. I don't want to hang out. I certainly don't like hooking up. Friends with benefits? Do I look like a sorostitute to you? I have *some* self esteem,k,thx. I want structure. I don't want ambiguity and wiggle room. I don't want to be the girl who slaps a guy in the face because she isn't *really* his g/f. Or the girl who doesn't get the call or the girl who is casually thrown aside the minute something else comes along.