Feminine center my ass. This is why I think femininity is a bunch of bunk. Instead of being proud of black women going out and achieving something, we have some BS about wasting time doing stuff that does nobody any good. Why don't you guys go and waste your money on a bunch of useless beauty crap, and cook and clean and have a perfectly ripped body before you start talking about how black women aren't good enough for ya. Oh you won't? And you'll bitch about a grownass woman wanting a guy who isn't a burger flipper? Yea, later for you.