(warning: sex related crap instead of insightful posting) I want to ask people what sex acts and sexually related stuff they think most people consider mandatory. I will not say that your choices are disgusting. Among young people I notice that there are some stuff being expected that I'm not comfortable with: hookups(College is the total nadir of sex) not having a hairy crotch(I wish I was back in the 70s for that alone!). I'm neutral towards: blowjobs. I want penis in vagina sex, pussy licking. Also, to distract from the fact my whole family is spying on a rental house, I also posted this to black folk. but without what I liked so folks could play in a free field.