Sunday, March 05, 2006

How to Tell if You're a Rapist:

There seems to be some confusion about rape. Here's how to tell if you are a rapist:

The most telling ways are these three:

Is she a child?
Is she unconscious?
Is she screaming NOOOO?

But there are other ways to tell:

Did you have to threaten to hurt her so she'd have sex with you?

Did you have to misrepresent where you were going?

Is she puking, about to pass out or simply off her head with drinking?

Are you in a group with your buddies? Did you not talk about the scene first and obtain the woman's consent?

Is she dodging your dick, or blocking it, or trying to get away? If you don't know the girl and haven't talked about bedroom play, you're most likely a rapist.

Did you have to give her drugs so she'd have sex with you?

Did you threaten her emotionally(i.e. have sex with me or else!)?

Are you holding her down?

Is she sobbing? Whimpering? Freezing up? Then you need to stop and ask her if she is ok.

Other stuff that is pretty damn bad as well:

Unsolicited Fingers Anyplace.

Video taping sex without someone's consent and showing it to people

Groping people for no good reason

Tips:

You are never entitled to sex.

No, I don't care if she's a sex worker.

I don't care if she did it before.

I don't care if she slept with the whole frat house.

I don't care if she is running around butt naked.

I don't care if she wants to be a porn star.

I don't care if she is your g/f/wife/whatever

Don't rape, dumbass.

This isn't exhaustive, but go with the spirit of the thing rather than the wording. Basically, think before you put it in. A little bit of respect and asking women their opinions can prevent you from being a disgusting waste of flesh.

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