A Turkish authors talks about state feminism. Personally I see defeminizing one's self as freedom, as doing a bunch of work for free and then people bitch about how you didn't do it right, yea, not my idea of a good time. "Yea, I was going to go and watch a movie, but instead I'm going to spend 2 hours at the salon, being bored out of my skull"

Oh yea, and if you work outside the home, you're like walmart, you baby abandoner, you.