Our pornified culture is full of fail. Way to take sex and make it not fun! The whole contest to prove male dominance through sex totally fucks with sex. I mean really, I would think that men who like having sex with women would want to maximize the number of times they get to have sex with women, and I don't think the pornified culture does that. Insisting on dominance rather than mutual fun, saying you can't get off unless a whole set of factors is in, who would want to deal with that?