I think the vanity thing seems a bit blaming of those trapped within the prison of beauty.
Feminism, performance, and doubt.
Instead of being any help on the immigration tip, I am merely enjoying the quality of the writing about it.The bile returning to one's liver, the teabaggers bootstrapping themselves to their own private destinies! Good writing! Let no one say that us POC don't have amazing writers, and that's why we have David Brooks and George Will, with their limp, hateful sentences in our national magazines and newspapers.
Sick professor tries to hide the fact that he is a child abusing sex touristing asshole. It doesn't work.
On condoms as 'evidence' of sex work.