Friday, May 08, 2009

Hey, my soul is healed and now I want to pay people back for the kindness that I have received! But that doesn't mean your ass isn't accountable, I still got a hot temper!

I was going to have some terribly deep thoughts on how the media turns everything around. Like black kids are hardworking and smart becomes BUT THOSE OTHER BLACKS ARE HOLDING THEM DOWN. Latinos fight for self determination becomes THEY HATE AMERICA

Thursday, May 07, 2009

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Maybe I'm not an expert, but I don't think women don't know that to be on tech panels they need to submit things or that it's fun to blog about technical issues. Stuff like perform like a porn star ads seek to keep women in their place- you're just a disembodied ass, like this computer here.

Through Mother Jones, I found this great post- I especially liked the bit about how homophobes think that gay people just want to talk to their ugly kids or their ugly selves. It shows how self centered racism and homophobia is. Instead of truly connecting with others and seeing them for who they are it's all me,me,me. That reminds me of the racist note writer mentioned in this column- the town is only for whites, baseball- a global past time popular in places from the Caribbean to Japan- is only for whites. That not only prevents them from enjoying little league in their own communities, but also prevents them from enjoying the major leagues and the great talent we get from overseas.

Also, police officers shake down people of color in Texas.

Monday, May 04, 2009

Baby quite ill with measles. Really folks, vaccine your children. This guy's baby was too young to be vaccinated.

Friday, May 01, 2009

For god's sake people, don't use hydroxycut or whatever it is! You know, is it me or do a lot of these weight loss drugs cause some *nasty* side effects? Like that phen fen and those amphetamines that were so popular. And I hear gastric bypass isn't so hot either, with the danger of malnutrition and suchlike. I'm a big meanie, so I guess maybe we should live with the bodies we are given, even if they don't fit the 'desired' type.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

You know, I was reading this thing on homeschooling. I have to admit I'm not a fan. It seems to me that one parent would have to stay home and school the kids, and what would the parent[probably the mom] say when they try to get back into the workforce? Not to mention the issue of the average sort of person trying to work through the financial issues. *isn't amazing, so always assumes that for most people staying at home and schooling the kids all day and then working at night would not be very possible]
Humanity critic's annoying comments on twitter:

Stripper: Why haven't we hung out yet? Me: I wear riot gear with regular chicks, I'd have 2 fuck you through a hyperbolic chamber. No thanks


What, you got something against strippers, dude?

I'm glad the roofing crew had a sense of humor. When I saw that some of them were Mexican I came out wearing a surgical mask. They laughed

Probably to cover up annoyance from you being such a dick.


Me:This is no good/ Woman: Why?/ Me: Because if this is how you keep your house, I can just imagine the state of affairs your vagina is in


I have no idea what he's talking about, but it sounds woman hating.

*unfollows with soul cleansed*

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

I have been enjoying Escape Pod, and therefore will link to the Botox School of Acting.
I love this open letter about invisible disabilities. I'm not even really sick, and sometimes I'll be able to do things, and sometimes I won't. It's all a matter of if my brain is working that day,ok?

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

As usual, I was arguing with nezua on the twitter. We were complaining about how people who go around fucking people in their sleep are giant jerks. Nezua and I parted ways on the consenting partners thing though. While I can see some couples having perfectly fine agreements to wake each other up with sex, I can see a whole lot of ways that we have an agreement could end up fucked up.

For example, one partner could think 'well, her nipples got all hard, so she's totally into it' or maybe one time one partner was into the sleep sexing, but sometimes they have a big test and don't want to be woken up with the peen. I can just see a million ways folks could say 'we have an agreement' and folks end up feeling hurt or violated. So remember folks, talk about under what conditions you want to be fucked in your sleep. Mine are 'under no conditions, fucker. I need that sleep'
I know a person who is so awesome, she interns at the center for independent living and goes to Washington to protest with ADAPT, a disabilities rights group.

Saturday, April 25, 2009

I think the one sentence of this article makes me think of a crucial shift in our thought about sex. 'We don't want to give up what turns us on' I first started thinking about this...well, OK, I have to admit my guilty pleasure. I like reading Pandagon. Despite being too lazy to raise anyone's consciousness, I still feel sort of bad. Anyway, I was reading about how Eliot Spitzer thinks springing his choking fetish on prostitutes is a totally sensible thing to do.

I think that what turns us on is considered too important in our society. Yes, choking prostitutes and not using a condom[possibly exposing them to some diseases] might have turned Elliot Spitzer on, but I think other considerations should have come first, like was the woman fully prepared for the scene, health risks,etc. It's all right to be turned on by certain things, but you need to look beyond the orgasm. Our culture encourages us to stop at the orgasm, and not see beyond it. And I think it's bad for everybody.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Guerella Medicine talks about the heartrending pain of those who can't afford a child or an abortion.

I would be careful about that herbal stuff. Pennyroyal, for example, despite being herbal, can be quite dangerous. Blue cohosh isn't exactly super fun either.

Also, bitch phd says something stupid.
In a positive story about black culture, photos of area teens dancing and distignished African ladies hit the commercial appeal for coverage of the africa in april festival.

Yesterday, I saw The African Company Presents Richard the Third., and it made me think about how art can be a method of gaining freedom. In the play, the characters talk about how their play gives them the ability to let people dream. Jimmy does a scene in which he describes being heckled for doing Hamlet and told to sing possum in a gum tree. He performs it, but even though I don't know the history of the song, the dramatic way in which it was performed, certainly shows him subverting that racist image.

At the end of the play, the characters decide to take what they have learned from the drama of Shakespeare, and create characters that they themselves can be. I liked how the drama of Richard the Third in the play was both universal and quite specific. The way Ann and Jimmy's characters in the play and their real relationship meshed was beautiful.

In other news, Collierville finally provides drainage for mostly black area.

Saturday, April 18, 2009

I'm against viewing porn at work. Why? I must hate sex and men, right? No...it's because I don't want to be hearing some 'Oh, ghetto bitch, you're such a hot slut' when I'm trying to do some work. I especially don't want to know that you want to see hot teens with tight pussies being fucked. There are some boundaries we need to have in the workplace, and your sex life is one of them.

When you're looking at porn and getting all aroused, that's way way too much information. Not to mention, I don't want to get into a big thing about how watching stuff by some girl raping pervo[*cough* girls gone wild *cough*] isn't exactly showing much respect for women.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Consolidation causes angry internet flamewar.

Several hot buttons:

OH NOES, OUR SCHOOLS!!!: Despite schools such as White Station, etc, being run by the city, people believe that by having less bureaucracy, our schools will be RUINED!!!

Why don't you salty salty snacks stay in your own cracker barrel towns and get your own jobs instead of commuting and complaining?: OK, maybe that's self explanatory.

OH NOES, THE CORRUPTION/THE MAYOR: Dudes, if you want a different mayor, you have to vote. By moving instead of voting, you entrench the mayor. Duh!

TEH CRIME: You know, criminals have cars, too. We can't fight crime by sitting on our asses and bitching.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Total pervs violate women's privacy. *shakes head* I have nothing intelligent to say about this, but this probably has something to do with the idea that a woman's body is public property.

Friday, April 10, 2009

The alternative school system in Desoto has been under suspicion of racial tracking.

In the print version of the appeal, the new information was a seperate story, but on the web, they merely added the information about the choking of a 15 year old to the old story.
Personally, I'm not seeing how we can justify choking a 15 year old. Also, what's with the Memphis students pollute 'our' schools shit in the comments? Why don't you guys stop adding to the decay of society? Much more on why that is later.

Thursday, April 09, 2009

Legal recourse for children physically and verbally abused by police. There is a stupid comment that I want to address. Let's take the premise[not necessarily true] that these children's parents were bad parents. Does that give the police the right to abuse children because they think their parents are bad parents? And how would the police know who is a good parent and who is a bad parent? If a child's parent is a secret sexual abuser[i.e. a bad parent] should we hit the kid in the face?

I don't think alternative school automatically means bad parent, BTW, but even if it did, why not help them with parenting rather than having the police hit their kids?

Saturday, April 04, 2009

I'm laughing at people who complain that people think that four year old blowjobs are gross. I'm not saying you're not allowed to write disgusting stories, but there's no need to post your child molestation stories on places that aren't spaces for child pervos, you know. I don't like child molestation porn fanfic. Yea, I think a kink is not OK. Cut and cry.

Thursday, April 02, 2009

Personally, I don't think sex is an essential part of our happiness,etc. Not only are there asexuals, there are people with low libidos, people who are perfectly happy to have sex once in a while, but aren't going to die if they don't have sex. Personally, I think there's too much emphasis on sex in today's society. Sex is fun, but it's like eating chocolate. I like eating chocolate, but I'm not going to die if I don't eat chocolate for a month.

Also, we learn how institutional codes make us more lonely in the story is harbor town illegal?
Zoning codes regulate sprawl- driving us away from each other on racial and class lines. But if we make it more legal to not sprawl, will we come back together? I don't know.

Oh yeah, and yesterday I thought that I wanted to repay the love I was given somehow, even though I don't have the strength or talent.

Wednesday, April 01, 2009

This is why we can't have nice things. Social workers already have high caseloads as it is. You can't throw out every girl who had fun at parties in college, you know. We need to start worrying more about talent, and less about how back in college, her ass looked really good in shorts.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Womanistmusings is working hard for us. But instead of being thankful, I'm going to bitch about my own problems. Man, I'm not even chronically ill, and I spend all my time going to the doctor. Really, I do! I went to the Walgreens clinic thing[Real doctors! With medical equipment!] because I lost my voice, I have to go to the dentist every two weeks[but at least my headaches are better], I have to go to the gyno this week[and probably complain about my aching side]. Man, if I was really sick, I'd be pissed.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

We all learn an important lesson on transpeople, cispeople and intersections of violence and privilege. Eh, I'm cool with being called cisgendered. I am who I am, and glad the police aren't throwing me in a prison full of men and fucking up my shit.

What is this bullshit? BTW: having a child is a huge consequence. what with the bed wetting and all.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Women get infections from poorly run salon's Brazilians. We get the usual-women gotta wax to get oral sex, which is sort of crappy- to get sexual pleasure, you gotta look a certain way. But really, half the guys out there don't even wash their balls good. *shakes head*

Friday, March 20, 2009

I was going to write a post about feminism and how I suck at it, but for some reason, this was open on my computer. So, uh..Ren hates that Kyle Payne person. will write later.
ETA: IT WAS EXPLAINED TO ME VERY SLOWLY THAT THE ISSUE WAS NOT INCLUDING THE EDIT THAT THE WOMAN IN QUESTION REQUESTED Hey, caps lock friday. But I don't really delete unless it's going to kill somebody, and my rantings may amuse you.



Sigh, we need to have two different feminisms. Sadly, I'm of the feminism saying, dude dude dude, good blowjobs are well and good, but forced sexual acts? Not good mojo. Yes, I'm a bad feminist, scaring all the 'good' women away from feminism. But I like being a bad woman. I want to be able to say 'Hey, the fact that your boyfriend is a douche doesn't mean you can't have enjoyable sex one day!', even if it scares women away from feminism. Anything you say can scare someone away. If I say, hey, rich white women with nannies should stop telling us all to quit our jobs and become housewives, I might offend rich white women with nannies.

I'm not seeing why a certain type of woman is more desirable as a feminist than other types of women. If a woman is happy with her life having some dude force his cock down her throat, I'm not making her leave him. I'm not saying you have to leave your rapist woman beating partner. Although, I may be a meanie oppressor and make some noises about a domestic violence shelter or getting a new boyfriend. I'm not saying you have to not spend your whole life basing your self worth on how your thighs look. I'm not saying you have to have a high paying job if you don't want to.
I'm not crazy- people are having babies like it is going out of style. Yes, that was back 2 years ago, but the having babies thing continues apace here.

And dang commenters. Stop with the bashing of Hispanics. People cry 'we're paying for them to bang out their anchor baybies' but come on- if you're been in the us for ten years, have a husband, etc, well...I'm going to expect at least a few of those women to have kids, and not for 'evil' reasons. Maybe they like kids or maybe their birth control failed. Whatever the reason, these US citizens are here now.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

This is the best post ever. This lady telling the truth makes it easier for some other woman to tell the world the truth.
My tumblr has a picture post on Resident Evil 5 and stupid special costumes. Personally, I don't find this sort of thing flattering or empowering. Look, she's black! Let's put her in stereotypical 'jungle' paint instead of say, researching an outfit that might fit with the character and the story.

I'm amused with the response that one guy had to this letter. "I'd never talk to my fundie idiot 13 year old again!" Really, dude, that's just too drastic of a solution to the issue.

The perspective of a birth mother on adoption.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The worst erotica I've ever seen outside of fanfiction.
I read Sham and I thought it was quite marred by whining about political correctness. Come on, dude, the Americans with Disabilities Act is a pretty good advance. He complains about addicted people being covered, but if we have to have a few addicts being covered by the ADA to get people with illnesses like Multiple Sclerosis or disorders like Cerebral Palsy in the workplace and producing instead of our losing their abilities, I'm all for it.

And conservatives need to take personal responsibility for some things. If there's not enough pretending to shoot people and dangerous and violent sports in school, why don't they arrange for their children to have those experiences outside of school? And really folks, we have enough guilt, shame, being a busybody, etc for everyone in the country here in the South.

Another pet peeve, alternative family is not the same as a broken home. Two dudes adopt a kid. It's not traditional, but it's not broken. Some woman divorces her cheating and beating husband. Not traditional, but not broken.

And for god's sake, can we stop moaning about political correctness? If I had a dollar for every single moan about it, I could bail out the entire economy, and have a cool billion left for me. And the femininization of society can be a good thing. Some masculine traits don't work well in this modern world, such as being violent. You get in a fight over nothing nowadays, and someone will end up shot. Not something we want to encourage.

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Joan Kelly muses about sex not being all servicing men's boners. I am personally annoyed when people say that prostitution is just people having sex. There's a whole lot more going on there, you know!

Research fraud has Bint seeing red.


A post on whether pole dancing should be an Olympic sport causes an older woman/younger woman debate.
I'm 24, and I'm taking back the word prude, btw. I'm a prude, because I have sexual boundaries. I only want to do sexual things I enjoy. Capische?

Monday, February 23, 2009

I hear that when Day to Day ends, it will be replaced with Here and Now on MPB. Thank you MPB for keeping news radio where people can hear it.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Outlaw Midwives have a manifesta and I sit back saying I prefer hormonal birth control, certified midwives, etc.
People are still debating about the word bitch. Here's one side of the debate.and here's another.

I usually avoid the debate by talking about what a terrible person whoever I am disagreeing with is, how their morals are bankrupt, and their taste in food is terrible.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

I'm not letting my 8 year old wax shit. Yea, kid, you're going to have to just deal!
I feel like giving this lady some money just because she's bagged on so much. Those tax cuts that you love so much are taking way more money out of our budget than some lady's kids.
People in TN don't even believe in evolution, which is why we lag behind- poor education.

I like this post. The idea that everyone has to live in atomistic households is actually fairly new, and in many parts of the world, or heck, sometimes even many parts of this city, isn't followed.

Friday, February 06, 2009

Dear judgmental lady:

screw off. She can use her uterus for her own purposes, and if people give her cash, that's their deal. Just be glad *you* don't have 14 kids.
You know why nothing gets any better? Comments like this. The assumption is that normal people can do nothing but quarantine the 'thugs'[which I disagree with the whole idea of a 'thug' as it perpetuates the idea that there are 'criminals' and 'the rest of us' and if only we killed all the 'criminals' everything would be fine]

Note that this report says that both males were in their 50s. and the shooting was over a parking dispute. We could prevent shootings like this by educating ourselves on anger management, deescalation skills, not carrying guns around in our cars. The emphasis on thugs obscures these simple things we can do to prevent violence. Because violence doesn't come from outside of the community, it comes from all of us. When you don't invest in the fabric of your community, saying oh, those folks are too dark, those folks are too poor, you get crime.

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BTW: elle b has an important post on rape, virginity, and the connection between that and sexual choice making. We need to change the attitude that once you've lost it, either by saying yes or by coercion, your bodily integrity doesn't matter.
A TN person intercedes in the case of an accused atheist.

Hey, this guy is awesome! When you invest in people, you get more out of it than when you invest in tax breaks.

PZ Meyers alerted me to the case.

Thursday, February 05, 2009

I'm edgy on the internet! I like receiving oral, but I don't like giving it. I don't go around thinking about my teeth being around my partner's pleasure center. I'm thinking 'eh, his precum tastes a bit salty...you know...I think his cock is a bit large..., oops, too close to the gag center'

I need a name for women like me. any help?

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

As an angry, evil radfem, I'd like to note that even women with gag reflexes[i.e. the majority of us] can give great head.Deeper isn't always better- good technique can make up for your lack of uh..porntasticness. Yes, that's the first thing I thought of saying. I feel better now.

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Mississippi governor is an idiot. He's against unemployment benefits for part time work, which is bunk. I'm sure many Mississippians would LOVE to work full time, but their job won't give them the hours. Or maybe they live in a small town, and there's not as many employers to choose from or something.

I have no idea what is going on in this article. Any help?

The New Know Nothings are covered in the New York Times.

A feminist says we should get out nose out of the octuplet lady's cunt.

Another feminist has other ideas.

Monday, February 02, 2009

Sunday, February 01, 2009

The American Cargo Cult, found in Making Light.

My favorite is this one:

Your opinion matters as much as anyone else's

When a person has studied a topic, he has no more real knowledge than you do, just a hidden agenda.


That reminds me of the widespread belief that doctors are part of a widespread conspriacy to kill us all, because they get money from evil companies. The sad bit is that people don't understand that vitamin supplements, people who give out 'herbal' treatments, and general hucksters aren't doing this for free. They get book sales, publicity, and cash payments, you know.

Also, organic peanut butter is also made in factories. You know that,right?

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

The only good thing Against Medical Advice has going for it is that at the end, the dad didn't say that doctors are really serial killers. Also, cognitive behavioral therapy is NOT a rare therapy.

Then again, I don't do 'heart warming'. I wanted to know more about his condition, I wanted different perspectives, I wanted to know how he got into the special school, etc,etc. It's a *book* not a movie. Make it complex!

Thursday, January 22, 2009



Look, I am posting videos from video games.
I'm glad that folks in Nashville had the good sense to vote down English Only. Folks will learn English because of the pure dominance of the language here. Sure, maybe a few won't, and it's good to help them and people who are still learning. Many government papers are confusing, and so if you're just learning English, it's more comfortable to read it in your own language.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

People discuss sex positivity on Ren's not safe for work blog.

I have to admit that I'm not sex positive. I'm OK if you're a diaper fur in your own bedroom, but when you get on the internet, telling us about how ~special~ you are, I'm going to laugh. And really, orgasms? as liberation? Next thing you know I'll claim that playing Persona 3 is revolution. People pretend that women don't play video games. As a hairy low sex drive if you hurt me I'm going to rip your balls off and shove them down your throat woman with a sensitive gag reflex, I uh...am not sex positive. And stop writing ass hymens into your fanfic. And for god's sake, 13 year olds, stop going down on each other and get your lesson.

Yea, basically, my personality is such that I can't be sex positive. That's too much being nice to people who are fricking hilarious, I like to make fun of people way too much. So if you like to be beaten with a salami during sex...you're still allowed to do it, except don't do it to children or animals, that's just mean, but I'm going to make so much fun of you.

This is also why I can't be an activist. I'm always goofing off and making fun of people.

Monday, January 19, 2009



Lum and Ran cosplay from Urusei Yatsura.

Some furry is a whiny crybaby over how he's totes oppressed. I'm always annoyed by folks who totally define themselves by their weird sexual fetish. I'm not saying you can't masturbate thinking about antromorphic animals. But nothing's more annoying than a guy who complains because people don't like their fetish. Now, let's take the picture above. If someone says lolz, you like dressing up as anime characters and they keep on trucking? Awesome. If someone says the same thing, and they go on a hoist the colors crusade to avoid the mocking of people who like wearing costumes? Lame. The same with fetishes.
An amazing post on the martyrdom of Martin Luther King.

I always feel sort of bad because I don't have the passion or dedication to be an activist. So I'm not any help... I guess folks who don't do anything really drag down a movement.

Oh but bfp is doing something awesome!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Someone said something cool on the internet-

"Childbearing is a radical act of faith'- pester.

Friday, January 16, 2009

The Hetalia mod is awesome! Hey, don't blame the Koreans, folks. Don't they have a sensitive relationship with Japan? Anime with national stereotypes is fun for us Americans, but I can see why since in Japan, Koreans are an oppressed minority, some folks may have hackles up...

Thursday, January 15, 2009