There's a lot of rape wank in this thread. I shake my head at those who think pestering a woman for sex is cool or OK. I mean really, that sounds like it's bad for the relationship. I mean, I wouldn't want someone to only have sex with me because I bullied, nagged, pestered, threatened, etc. I think that our society blows with the idea that sex is the most important thing ever. You're tearing down your relationship, quite possibly ruining your partner's emotional health, and possibly crossing the line into being an emotional abuser,but hey, get that sex no matter what the consequences! Really, sex is not that big a deal as we make it out to be. There's no need to fuck over another person just for sex.