I have to admit hearing folks go I'm ugly, and if you don't like it, hide and go fuck yourself speaks to me more than I looove makeup and femininity!! I think it's because it just comes off to me as more truthful because that's not the message you hear every fucking where. It seems against the hegemonic ruling culture here, instead of trying to collude with it. I like that because it stretches the boundaries. Instead of "Ok, being against rape is OK just as long as you say you like makeup and blowjobs" you let people know that women who don't toe the feminine line exist. People think all women are some sort of hivevagina who all like shopping, being pretty and giggling need to get on the next think train coming.