Also, the problem of writing vs wanking comes up again. The OP thinks that tacked on abuse/rape sucks and she gets all mad about it. I don't think the person complaining could even wank to those stories, because the rape/abuse is THAT tacked on. The sue goes "wah, I was totally abused in my CHILDHOOD!!!!" and then the canon character feels oh so sorry for her. And then they have smex.