Dang folks, for all you know, the lady with the three kids could have been planning to marry her boyfriend[or had some sort of political or moral objection to marriage]. Anyway, whether she should have three kids or not, we can not say as we are strangers on the internet. All we need to do is help the kids she's got now, who must be really hurting after losing their daddy in a fire. And think about how this woman must be suffering. Her lover died in a fire, for fuck's sake. The only solace there must be is that none of the children died.