'Marry Your Baby Daddy day'?
I don't think marriage is magic. If he's unemployed before the wedding, he's not going to suddenly get a job, ok?
In a movie theater, I saw a guy who had foolishly brought a five year old to The Dark Knight. He also had a tattoo saying Tennesey on his arm. Personally, this sounds rude but I wouldn't marry that guy if you paid me! And I bet the mother of his child didn't marry him for a reason. [and if she did marry him, well..I wouldn't marry a guy who hits on random girls in the movies]