On stupid free, there is some debate about the OP being a troll, which shocks my rad fem sensibilities.

But the linked thread bothers me. I don't think being able to say "you know, when you say all women should submit to men, that really comes off as antifeminist suck" means that we're going to outlaw beating people with salami during sex. Really folks, police yourselves and there's less mess in the world.

BTW: yesterday I decided to sacrifice amazingly! Due to the annoying crap in the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show[I hate your unfunny skits!] I will not buy any $30 panties that uh...I don't buy or wear anyway. So take that!

Stupid people are mocked at PZ's

Good comment here.

Note: I didn't understand the that one controversy until I saw McCain's body language and then I was outraged. You see, I heard part of the debate on the radio, and a very small part on TV.

Hey, it's the best post on people who forward shitty email forwards to you ever.

I was amused by the part about the dark cravings of ones' submissive soul. answer: nobody cares.

Did you know about the fierce letter writing campaign on behalf of one of the jersey four?

Are hidden object games invading the wii?!

Game I am playing.

wtf?

Yay, weekend web!!

oooh, now folks are arguing about BDSM in comments I'll repeat my opinion- now it's nice that all your men are on their fours barking like dogs or whatever, but there's a part about BDSM that can go snugly antifeminist if you don't pay attention[the part that is really look at me, I have a dick! submit!! Yes, those people are idiots, but they still are the public face of BDSM] - especially to the sort of people who say that kink is above scrutiny. I mean that gives the sort of people you don't want hitting any one inside the bedroom or not an opening where they can inflict being assholes on everybody. But if you're able to be like NO, I DON'T CARE IF [INSERT CRAZY ASS SHIT] GETS YOU OFF, THAT'S JUST DUMB can scare off some of the less hardcore asshats. I consider BDSMers who are doing it wrong and asshats also a part of the community as well. If you have a good reason why idiots should not be counted, I guess you can tell me.

It seems that people in pervy subcultures aren't magically immune to societal bullcrap! Who knew?

Also, BDSMers fall prey to a geek social fallacy. Listed here.

Also, I was going to show you all an article about Australian sex workers having to pay high fees to be legal, but I can't remember where I found it. Any help?

one lady acts out of line, rest of breast feeding mothers still OK.

sad stupid. bonus for if you don't like bdsm, you're not doing it right.

people are good at writing about feminism. I'm unable to do anything but long for the confines of my bed.

Broadsheet talks about magazines and newspapers stopping running ads for prostitution. ...what a disturbing stor about the brothels in Nevada.

Join poor skills. Slight homebirth wank. Amusing boojupostingsnark. Now the mods of VP have been contacted.

bonus: weird childfree stuff. I wish LJ would shut down the pro ED communities.



An interesting art piece about family.

I do say real and fake BDSM but not in the way mocked here. By fake BDSM, I mean, dang, you're just being an abusive asshole there. I try not to get the problematic aspects of BDSM mixed up with the people who are just abusing folks and saying uh 'bdsm'. Why? It's just neater that way.


A woman of color has interesting and varied thoughts on sex work.

Ok, that's horrible!

There are rants on the net. I am amused, and hoping that rants like this will keep away the stupid. Also, some stupid lady says that women shouldn't have the vote or 'APPROVE OF ME SEXIST MALE DOMS AND SIMPERING FEMALES!! I'M DESPERATE FOR ATTENTION BECAUSE I'VE GOT NOTHING TO OFFER.

Also, I like this comment. Just because women in general are like one half of a percent worse at rotating objects in their heads than men in general doesn't mean that specific women, who may or may not be better or worse than their male counterparts at rotating objects in their heads need to be locked out of professions that may not even depend on whether you can rotate objects in your head.

EW, pedos.

Never watch porn on a public flight. The naked truth is that not appropriate.

Some women don't dig digg. I admit to using sk*rt despite it being kinda sexist with the girly crap. They also need a business bit there, because a lot of women are in business.

LULZ, BDSM.

Shoes for the poor.

Girl Scouts in Jail.

I'm watching There are No Children Here with Oprah and Maya Angelou. It's fairly good, although overlooked. Is it because of the theme of black people working together or something?

Two vaginas.


Super dangerous breast cancer!

(text only, but really disturbing) Dear creepy assholes, when a woman says she doesn't want to serve you anymore, let her go. Do not threaten her, rape her or verbally abuse her. Just because the woman has odd hobbies in the bedroom is no excuse for an abusive relationship. There's no right of blanket consent to sexuality just because she consented once, twice, a thousand times before. Each time, you need to have her consent.

BDSM lulz. Ah, good old women- their power is always in good ol' submission, never in anything fun like being President. A public service message for subs. Of course, I'd rather go with actual power rather than OMG!! she lets him dominate, but I am not up with the latest trends. LOL, humbled women! The beauty of female servitude?! LOL.

Also, the least hot sexual fantasy ever:

Also, some good period stupid.

I disagree with Jack Goff. Sometimes your choices are wrong. For example, Condi Rice is for blowing up Iraq. Her choices are wrong. And sometimes you don't mean to have the wrong choice, you just blunder into it- being a dumbfuck isn't just for women, it's for humans of all stripes. Sometimes I see myself as a bit of a keeper of memory. The person who is aware of how people have messed up in the past, and how when we do things, we are not infallible. As the person who remembers that the mind is not straight forward and that memory often forgets what we need to know, I'd like to say- I reserve the right not to support your choices and to be judgemental. We need a nuturing space sometimes, but othertimes, we need the sword of truth and not taking bullshit. I do better on that part than the other one.

Also, disturbing shit from dot snark bdsm.