Personally, no wonder our economy is full of old socks if people can't hire folks because they had a sensible wedding instead of total insanity.

Darn, and just when mamitamala had healed my soul by noting that the idea that everyone has to earn everything is kind of silly. It might be 'unamerican' to say so, but I always feel I never measure up. IT'S A DEEP HOLE IN MY SOUL!