Posts on children in public are a hot topic. This is because we have to share public space, and everyone has so many different mores[should children have more freedom or should they be more disciplined? How well behaved can we expect a child to be? What is the role of the parent and the role of the public in this?] and most of our desires are mutually exclusive.
I try to err on the side of not being the parent police, but due to long socialisation and general irritability, I often fail. Intellectually, I understand all that about the policing of women's reproduction, and the different standards for children of color, and there's also the issue of individualism versus community and different social mores[to me, a gun shop is not a family friendly space, to others, it is], but it's all such a jumble and a mess that I can't say anything coherent about it. So here's what other people think:
Ma'ia- ain't I a mama? Personally, I don't like even being mistaken for a mother in public, but I'll think on it.
Also, Karnythia has an opinion on this too. Although I'll note that Jack in comments might be talking about alcoholism there.
Support women and children's rights!
People w/ disabilites vs moms?