A common meme is that only weak people are affected by society.
I don't think that's true. I mean, sure, some people can resist the idea that the qualifying round for a woman to be a good person is the 'right' body, and all else is icing on the cake, but there's varying effects on everyone. Some folks will parrot the party line hook line and sinker, and others will only be slightly off balance, but that doesn't mean that the effects on everyone else are negated.