"That's why the more understated, if not downright passive aggressive forms of communication that many whites engage in can create absolute culture shock when blacks enter the workplace populated by whites"- from Working While Black.

I have to admit that that form of communication 'reads' to me as being giant fucking liars. If your words and your actions don't match, it causes me to see you as a liar. I don't know why, but that's how I determine things.