If we all stood up to cruel people instead of ignoring the pain of their victims or try to say its a part of life(their victims aren't a part of life- they aren't allowed to speak) , there would be a lot less meaningless cruelty. You know when people stopped using the n word so much? When people started to say they would not accept it. Don't accept cruelty- there's something wrong with the cruel person, not the person who got in their way.