uh..you can refuse to put your little girl in a nasty bitch shirt and don't let her have manicures and makeup until she's in jr high at least. You don't have to go along with every silly fad that comes along. I'm not saying that kids aren't their own people and don't go against their parents, but seriously, if you don't want your 3 year old wearing 'nasty bitch' on their shirt, don't buy it. Go for thrift stores[some of those clothes haven't been used] or online if you can't find age appropriate clothing for your kid.